Crazy About Love Huh!!!

This is the first article I am writing. Didn't think I would do this ever but one of my frnds' status, another’s poems and a video (here's the link to the video if you are interested - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RmgbHbMLouw) inspired me enough to write this.. And for my first article I chose the subject that is very close to my heart :P but I still think I don't believe in it.. LOVE..!!!

                          

You think you love someone very much?? Have you ever told someone about how you feel for them?? Or have you watched a typical romantic bollywood movie??? If yes then you may realise that the most common response to a proposal is "How much do you love me?" or "What can you do for me?"

And your answer would be I can buy you a huge house, an expensive car and will always keep you happy..!! Any guy who loves a girl or the same girl you "love" will keep her happy, so you aren't doing anything different. So why do you think she should choose you??? What special or different things can you do that others can't...?

I don't believe in love not because I have never experienced it or I have had a bad experience or anything, but I don't believe in it because I don't think I am capable of doing something so very special for anyone. You may feel what is so special about love. Well let me give you some examples of what I feel can be termed as love. "A father running a marathon for his disabled son", "A son sacrificing his career to support his parents" that’s what love is.. Today we use the L word so casually that it has lost the importance. Every chat with every girl or a guy ends in "luv u". Well that might look cute to say, but your feelings are nowhere close to Love.

Father running a marathon just because his physically n mentally challenged son asked for it, Parents investing all their lifelong hard earned money to get their daughter married, or a girl sitting in the window seat of a bus staring outside remembering her lost love, a mother getting up after a sleep of 3 hours to make food for her son jus so that her son doesn't go out of the house with an empty stomach. These relations deserve the tag of Love. Love is the hard work and commitment of that father who is willing to do anything for his mentally challenged son, the emotions and numbness in the eyes of the girl who remembers her lover all the time, the happiness of the parents whose daughter gets married and the sacrifice of the mother who makes sure that her son doesn't stay hungry. Love in all above cases doesn’t have any limits, and only when there is no limit, you are crazy about love..

We have always heard and most of us also believe that love is blind. Well I tend to disagree. Love is not blind, neither is it done with eyes closed. You fall in love with someone only when you are able to see the good characteristics and the inner beauty of some person. I might be a good looking person, but if I am not good from within, no girl would fall in love with me. That’s why love is not blind. Do not disrespect the sacrifices, the emotions, the attachments and the feelings by saying that love is blind. Its jus that love is not done through eyes, it's done through the heart. It’s the second thing in the world after God that cannot be described but only felt. So next time you plan on telling your boyfriend or girlfriend that you are crazy about them or you are madly in love with them, be ready to prove it by doing something that is beyond your capabilities and your wildest imaginations.

Still Crazy About Love Huh????

P.S Thanks to all my friends who thought I was capable to give it a try..!!